However, there's a fine line between being bitchy and sassy. but the difference is, they'll do it in a playful manner because they mean well. No I am not homosexual or metrosexual or a feminine guy by the way for any trolls.:rolleyes: What on earth does ' sassy ' even mean?. Three Parts:Channeling Your SassActing Sassy Increasing Your Sassy brash, but you say it with a smile on your face, and you don't actually mean anything by it. It takes knowing and loving yourself to have that gusto to do your own thing, . When your crush tells a funny joke, you're not afraid to tell him how cute he is.