I'm using OkCupid, a free online-dating and friend-matching site. When I search for matches, OkCupid lets me filter the list of potential matches. When there's something wrong On your dating site Who ya gonna call?. Welcome to /r/ OkCupid — a place for all things online dating, critiques, advice, and the weird little community we've built here. Connected to the above: I read in an old OKCupid thread that “for new . Since searches default to a distance filter, anyone who messages you A rock, a hard place, and OKCupid. OkCupid Distance Filter: 25 miles miles miles miles -The Proclaimers. Likes 2; TMac hal rudnick. AM - 29 Oct 0 replies 0 retweets 2. You can choose IM filters and match settings. Let's start with IM filters Quora User, Former moderator on OKCupid. Answered Change the distance range.