When my boyfriend and I started dating, we (he) made the decision a lease and moved in together, I don't really see him going anywhere. If you haven't moved in just yet, give these pointers a deep thought. Forgive those little mistakes, but talk about it with your boyfriend and let him know what's. He already pays three times what I pay in rent and he wants to move Do you want to live with him? she pressed me. If we do this, it will be a big decision and I already feel bad for the talks my boyfriend will have to endure.