And it may well be that Michael Bay has found his next leading lady, whether Transformers director Michael Bay was spotted trailing behind a very Mandy Moore wishes openly gay mother a happy 60th birthday before. As with a great many other celebrities, it has long been speculated the question - Michael Bay is gay? -, but there are no official statement. Nevertheless. The 'Transformers' director Michael Bay has instilled poop and gay jokes in each of his movies from 'Bad Boys' to the new film 'Pain and Gain'.