1) No trolling, contentless insults, childish jokes, or bragging to intentionally provoke incels. No vicious personal attacks at anyone; we are fine with an This is why you can't get laid · FAQ - Read this before posting. " Incels," or involuntary celibates, are often dismissed as freaks or losers. It may be time to rethink that caricature. But sympathy for Rodger, and strikingly similar ideologies, are disturbingly common in the online communities for “love-shy” and incel men. Since beginning research into the incel universe, I'd hoped to find the first online incel: Which corner of the manosphere had he hailed from?. Found in Reddit's r/ Incels. I don't even have a joke here. Please, dude, get therapy — for your sake, and for the sake of any “human females” in your immediate. "Involuntary Celibate". A frustrated virgin who feels as if the world owes them sex. A self-described ' incel ' is highly likely to blame their virginity on the other.