Instructions: For each of the following questions, choose the answer that best describes how your ideal partner would act. My ideal mate Always. Usually. How do I send a good first message? The Story, Perfect Match, and Ideal Date sections of your profile give you an opportunity to describe yourself and who you’re looking for. Your Ideal Date description is where you can describe what your idea of a good time is. Someone who you'd spend a long time with (if not your whole life). My ideal partner is someone who can make me laugh even in the worst of.